"After That Election, Feeling Bad Might Just Be Good"
 "Well, I’ll be processing my feelings about the election for some time to come. I’ve noticed that they parallel the well-known seven stages of grief - shock and disbelief, denial, guilt and bargaining, sadness and regret, and anger.
I haven’t made it through yet to the final stages of acceptance and hope, but I’m working on it....
So, let’s start here with these feelings. Feelings, after all, aren’t “good” or “bad” but are meant to be felt. We don’t necessarily have to think, act, or decide based on them.
First, we need to congratulate ourselves for having those emotions, experiencing them deeply and having difficulty in dismissing them. They are, in fact, telling us that we’re truly bothered by injustice, cruelty, prejudice, and inequality.
If we merely felt ho-hum about it all or could “get over it” right away, I’d question whether justice, fairness, kindness, humanity, diversity, equality, and concern for our fellow human beings really were our core values.
So, don’t buy the easy advice about how to feel instead – you should feel the way you do. And you can feel it as long as you have to without guilt before doing any work to move forward. These feelings will change as all feelings do...."
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including his, in this issue, saying that we must go beyond just calling bigots hypocrites - the religion itself has to be held accountable. He names names and is right: 'What we’re seeing is the heart of what right-wing religion itself really is, not merely hypocrisy.'"
-- veteran LGBT activist (since 1959) and a founder of LA's Homosexual Information Center in 1968, Billy Glover
and this organization promotes and is a strong advocate for such thinking. He is a perfect fit for the 21st Century American thinking."
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